In your personal relationships Arians are frank, direct and candid, and make enthusiastic and generous friends.There is, however, a negative side to your associations with other people. You can easily be irritated by slowness or moderation in your companions and, though yourselves sensitive, ride roughshod over the sensitivities of others

m i very direct, frank and candid? i find myself beating around the bush rather often.. but i can oso recall being direct.. especially when scolding pple.. hahah.. i make enthusiastic n generous frens??? my frens muz b hiding this fact of theirs.. coz i realli cant name anyone who defines that area.. hah.. so pple! b more generous n enthusiastic to me!! hah.. the negative side seems to always fit me.. hah... im realli easily irritated by slowness.. mayb moderation.. dunno about that.. in my frens.. hah.. n i M sensitive! hah.. while i ride over others' sensitivities.. hah..

It is preferable to be aware of your pioneering spirit and not disregard it. For in acknowledging it you not only enjoy life more, but you avoid being pushed around by others. Your nature is usually push or be pushed, with little middle ground. This can at times be objectionable to others, but you must have the freedom to act, rather then just thinking about it, getting pent-up in the process. At all costs you need to avoid negative emotions such as resentment, regret and self-pity, for they would deny you what is essential to your nature: straightforwardness.

hmm.. pioneering spirit.. is that y im in pioneer? lol.. then all arieses shld b in pioneer.. anyway i do try to avoid being pushed around by others i guess.. although some form of that still appeals to me coz i can b too lazy to move sometimes.. hah... oh.. im supposed to push others or b pushed eh.. i wonder if i push pple? i may not realize it myself.. hahah... ooo i cant juz think about stuff.. or i'l get pent-up wif lotsa negative emotions.. which im supposed to avoid.. sigh.. i've been doing that for like ever.. hah.. resentment, regret and self pity!! its realli the 3 things that i realli think about all the time! yea! it denies my straightforwardness!!! so thats my nature.. hmm.. hah..

theres more but guess i'l stop for todae..